Do make it all about your daughter.....and please don't dwell on her academic achievements......seriously - one father did a whole speech about the brides academic ability starting with the age she started to read, through her 11 plus pass and on to Olevel and A level results and further education results...it was so sad...not one second about happiness at her birth , eating mud and that kind of thing which makes the speech so loving. I felt so sorry for her and stil do years later ....