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just to finish this thread abot my wonderful parents, they did,t think they could have children and tryed 8 years before my brother came along sadly he died when he was 36 with cancer it hit very hard then 5 year later mam was 37 and dad 42 i arrived, so now ia,m stiil fairly young at 44, and theres only me left to help out i wash shop and do there housework, but they do a lot themselfs as well, take them on all there hospital vists which is quite often, i look after my little grandaughter elise 14 mounths who my parents say is better for there health than pills and then when i,ve done this most of everyday including my own housework and shopping i go to real work on an evening , quite hectic dont you think but i would,nt change a thing, after certain things happen in life [like the loss of my brother] it makes you look and take in what you have and appricate life more i kinda live and be happy twice as much one lot for me and another lot for him. thanks for your lovley repliesxxx