I Need A Medical Diagnosis

[Anonymous245]

I want a medical diagnosis if you can. In 5th I was kind and honest, when I moved and went to 6th things changed. I lied to people about my home situation. Then I lied to my friends about my life, me being rich and absurd lies like that. It was if that was my different view of reality. I loved doing this, as I got to be a bit more respected and trusted, and got to see their reactions. I also was leader of the group,as they would first ask me where to go and when to get lunch, or to go to the field at school. Soon near the end of 7th grade, people started being very suspicious, and were slowly finding out the truth about me. Some were aware of the truth, and I am no longer leader. Now I am in 8th, and I am ignored and out of their social group. People call me a sociopath.I have ADHD. I don't think there is necessarily something wrong with me, but please reply.

[Zacs-Master]

It’s called growing up. Not easy some times is it.

[kvalidir]

You made a mistake and lied to feel better about yourself. If any of these people are genuinely nice people, get them on their own and apologise for that and tell them you realise you were stupid and see if things improve. If they aren't nice people and are dazzled by money and nonsense you've lost nothing, but I appreciate things will be hard for you at your age. Try to find other friends, there will be other disenfranchised 8th graders make no mistake, and lear from what happened. If things are bad elsewhere and you did it as a bit of an escapism trip, try to find something less damaging to you personally to take your mind off things, and remember nothing lasts forever, before you know it you'll be an adult with all sorts of different problems, but I don;t think there's anything 'wrong' with you, you're just a typical 13/14 year old, so don't beat yourself up about it x