ok, i'm sorry you feel like that but my response really wasn't sarcastic at all ... i was wondering what your question was, as i didn't know which bit you wanted comments on so it seemed reasonable to ask "whats your question". I don't really understand how that is construed as sarcastic ... clearly people had some sort of agenda! until you asked you question later i didn't know if you were commenting on fathers or parents in general, or asking people for their parenting horror stories, or their supermarket stories or what really. I guess if nme asking "what is the question" has got people areated to this extent that they have to insult me, call me a waste of space, a wind up merchant, accuse me of a holier than thou attitude, and worst of all start calling me "love" i'd better think about not responding to anything!