Thank You

[Rockrose]

I just wanted to say thanks for all the support that some of you have given me over the death of my father.
But as I take myself off this site for a while can I just say that some of you really need to take a hard look at yourselves, I cannot believe that some of you hold such grudges against me that you would never even pass your condolences on.
I don’t know if that says more about me or you?
So good bye for a while those that have my contact details feel free to contact me, you others may wish to take this time to contemplate what type of person you want to be.

[retrocop]

No comment.

[calmck]

This thread and two others, one recent and one from middle of August, had me wondering if I should post on them. I decided not to. I only “know you” through AB and while I sympathise with the issues and feel for the situation I see AB as a site for q and a and discussion in CB and news. I agree that AB can help those in pain and conflict by offering advice and counsel it is everyone’s right if they contribute or not but I do not see it as mandatory for every member to respond. Regards RR I hope you find comfort for your loss

[spathiphyllum]

I thought I did pass on some empathy. However looking through your posts I see I did not. There was no specific reason for this.

Regardless who what where or why, I will always be sorry to hear of someone loosing there father. Sorry RR.

[vulcan42]

"Cor...it's a bit like a school playground here....."
Twas ever thus.

[Jordyboy9]

Just going to say goodbye for now, I hope you don’t stay away to long,as I have valued your support in the past.

[pastafreak]

Take care, Rr.
Rest, recuperate, get yer **** back together...and don't be a stranger to us here. Some will miss you, others won't. It doesn't matter in the big scheme of things.
See you soon...I hope.

[Peter Pedant]

// No comment.//

"no comment" is comment, retro
have you learnt nothing From my many many posts,

dear dear AB at its worst ....

[Peter Pedant]

// This thread ..... had me wondering if I should post on them. I decided not to.//

and here you are posting on the thread - what went wrong?

thi should be edited to

This thread and two others, one recent and one from middle of August, had me wondering if I should post on them. I decided to.

[wolf63]

RR - you sounded so happy when you posted at the weekend about your photos. I'm sorry that you feel hurt.

♥♥ don't stay away for too long ☺♥♥

[Peter Pedant]

to paraphrase the small girl in Poltergeist:
we'll still be heeeeeere !

[tamborine]

Condolences RR if I missed out. I dont catch all threads due to work & I dont expect sympathy from all abers over my son's plight. However if am asked, will answer but dont hold umbrage at all abers. We bear our crosses alone.

[Prudie]

Can someone please confirm that this is not aimed at every single person that did not post on your threads about condolences, surely not. I know I didn't but only because you have quite a few close friends on here who've been very supportive and I would have felt it an intrusion apart from being very reserved and finding posting such things awkward. I actually can't believe for a minute that's what you meant. Take care on your break.

[calmck]

PP you are correct. My mistake. Maybe I should have realised that some people on here take offence where none is intended

[naomi24]

I don’t understand why you think that those who didn’t offer condolences harbour a grudge against you – or, indeed, why anyone is obliged to offer condolences at all. I’ve no doubt you’re feeling fragile right now – as we all do at such sad and difficult times – but I think you’re over-reacting to your own assumptions. I hope you feel better soon. Take care of yourself.

[Baldric]

// I cannot believe that some of you hold such grudges against me that you would never even pass your condolences on //

Were you expecting the whole membership of AB to respond to you, how naive and childish of you.

[spathiphyllum]

This post makes RR vulnerable to hostility whilst she is clearly in a sad place right now.


Maybe it should just be deleted like most of Jordys threads?