what is the difference

[havinmysay]

i would just like to ask what the difference is on seeing somebody and actually going out with somebody im abit confused thanx

[freak_unique]

I always imagined "seeing" someone is like when you are doing things together but not officially an item. But some men like this to mean they can see other people too - which is annoying. It is a hard question as people interpret it differently. And going out is the more obvious an actual couple!
If in doubt have a chat with your bloke about what he wants out of this and how he feels :)

[ashblonde]

well im seeing my bank manager tomorrow.and im certainly not rooking him or going out with him.so i would say seeing someone is a casual thing.

[Postdog]

China, your post after mine - dunno if you were answering me but maybe I should explain better.

I don't want to be involved with anyone, and neither does a woman on my walk. Nor do we want to go out together on dates etc. But we do have sex - we're both adults and it's because we ARE adults we miss the sex thing. So in that sense we are seeing each other.

The moment one or other of us gets a significant other - or IF that happens I should say - we'll stop "seeing" each other.

[havinmysay]

so some of u say its just sex,some of u say its just 'casual', and others say its gettin to no some1 im more confused now than i were thanks anyway guys xxx

[China Doll]

It can get confusing which is why I say have a chat with your bloke and just make sure that you're both at the same stage. If not, then think about your options.

Morning Postdog, nope, wasn't replying to you. Only just saw your post this morning. Quite agree that this is yet another way of seeing somebody. I stand by that as long as both parties are singing from the same hymn sheet all is good with the world which I think is what you're saying too xx