mkno, I have osteoarthritis and am facing having two knee replacements in the next few months, so I know how you are feeling right now. Please don't let this get you down. There are ways in which one can reduce the pain. One of the simple ones is to keep a 1kg bag of peas in your freezer and to ice the painful areas as often as possible. Icing the back is not a very pleasant thing to have to do, but I find if I put a thin towel around the ice pack it makes it easier. Heat also often helps, so try sitting against a hot water bottle - again make sure it is covered, so you don't burn yourself. There are several large heat plasters you can get from the chemist that reduce the pain, especially in the back. The one I use is called Belladonna Plaster (by Cuxson Gerrard). I use them on my lower back. You can get them from most chemists I think. I get mine from Moss Chemists, but have to order them in sometimes.They cost about �2.50 each and can be left on for 2-3 days. Like all plasters, they are not too nice when you have to pull them off again as they catch on any hair on the body, but if you take them off while in the bath, they come off much easier. The other plasters are usually much more expensive and only last 8 hours or so. Try to do pilates exercises and keep mobile. Hope that helps a little. Best wishes.