It's quite obviously a coincidence. However it depends on what you class as being a coincidence. There's 365.25 days in a year, so theres a 1/365 chance that you'll meet someone with your birthday. Regardless of background, the child also has a 1/365 chance of being born on that day. The only time you can predict it, is if both you and your friend made sure you concieved around the same date. Even so, as this is not the case (I don't think!), then to be honest, I think the chances are simply 1/365 x 1/365, whatever that is! Obviously the fact that it's mother/child will make this smaller, but I'm sure it's not THAT rare in comparison to the fact that there are seven and god knows how many billion people on the planet. My auntie's 27th birthday was the very day that Elvis Presley died (One of her favourite artists), and my mum's 27th birthday was the day that John Lennon died (One of her favourite artists), and my mum and auntie are sisters - Now THAT'S freaky! But yeah, yours is as freaky as mine!