Great news for me. I think I told you some time ago that 3 separate friends had not bothered with me - one for 3 years, one for 1 year and another for 2.
Would you believe I have received beautiful Christmas cards from them and they did mention why the relationship went sour for them.
I couldn't believe the note from the 3 year loss of one friend, she said I didn't answer the door and didn't answer two calls so from that she never bothered.
Since I only got the cards at 3pm today no point in sending a card - but I sent an email saying - not in a million years that happened. I either had the headphones on - was out the back or something. For the phone calls I always answer my calls so they didn't happen either.
Anyhow they all want to play with me now LOL - so Covid free - I have been invited to their homes in the New Year.
Would you believe it. All these years I believed I did something wrong and pondered and pondered until I couldn't ponder no more so I left it alone. Anyway all is well and I am happy this Christmas.
thanks Douglas - it will be some time in the New Year I suspect.
The second friend sent me a complete bag of goodies as well as a card - perhaps her conscience was pricking her as I was really really good to her through her many heartbreaks.
Ah that's brilliant JJ, I'm so happy for you as it is an awful feeling, to think you did something on a person to have them stop talking, well done and good for you to email them - a little Christmas happiness for you and renewed friendships in new year - go you - happy Christmas