the dishwasher is a breeding ground for family discord. I do not have much spatial awareness, so am crap at loading. All the cupboards are high so im crap at unloading.
Therefore i do not do any loading or unloading :)
my contribution is ordering the tablets from amazon
I’m the only one who puts anything in the dishwasher, so my way is the right way. (Husband just about knows where it is).
It’s basically just a jumble, but knives go point down.
Ours is a cutlery tray, rather than a basket. When I load the d/w the cutlery is stacked so that the knives, forks etc are grouped together. You can get more in that way. When OH does it in her own haphazard way, I sigh inwardly and leave it at that.
The best way to blunt a sharp knife is to put it in the dish washer.
The Mrs always checks if I've loaded it. That goes for curtains, cushion plumping and bed making:-(
I'm not allowed to do it and if I try he changes everything. So now I don't bother and leave him to it. Same with the kitchen cupboards! His sheds and garage are a complete mess though. I refuse to go anywhere near.