I Am Just Confused, What Should I Do?

[qwg76]

Referring my last questions, the guy is going to get married to a girl he doesn't even know. The girl with they finalized earlier anyhow got canceled. His parents are more concerned about the caste, height and stars, and not compatibility.

I really want to marry this guy, but I cant force him to go against his family and marry me. Neither I want to make his family hate him for falling for me.

Whenever his parents search a girl, something or the other thing happens and they dont go forward in building any relationship. And this has happened more than 3 times. And whenever things like these happen, I always think that maybe thats a sign universe wants to give us and wants us to get married.

But now His parents have finalized the girl who matches all the criteria. To be honest, I still have hopes that this also wont work and the guy will tell his family about me. But who am I to predict that.

I am just confused, what should I do?

[Tilly2]

Not a lot you can do in the situation. You will just have to wait and see how it pans out. In the meantime, look for someone more suitable.

[Old_Geezer]

Not seen your previous threads, and began to skim this one (sorry) but I got the gist.

The guy you are interested in has to make his own choice. Since you have already made up your mind what your preference is, you have no more influence and can only hope things work out as you prefer. But family is strong so there is no guarantee it will.

Wait & see. If it doesn't go as you hope, it isn't the end of the world. Life has both ups & downs; and the wise learn & improve theirself from experience of both extremes.