ChatterBank2 mins ago
Why Do People Not Pay Money They Owe?
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I sold a Playstation console to my cousin (in his 20’s) recently. I handed over the console to him and he agreed to pay me on the 24th when he got paid.
There has been no sign of payment despite a gentle reminder.
I hate situations like this as it seems harsh keep asking for the money.
On the other hand it makes me question the thought process of those who owe money but don’t/delay paying. When I owe money it plays on my mind and I’d much rather get it paid and out of the way. I wouldn’t want it hanging over me.
What could be going through the mind of my cousin.. maybe he doesn’t have the money, does he somehow feel better/more financially secure by delaying payment, is he somehow hoping that as time goes by I’l forget?
There has been no sign of payment despite a gentle reminder.
I hate situations like this as it seems harsh keep asking for the money.
On the other hand it makes me question the thought process of those who owe money but don’t/delay paying. When I owe money it plays on my mind and I’d much rather get it paid and out of the way. I wouldn’t want it hanging over me.
What could be going through the mind of my cousin.. maybe he doesn’t have the money, does he somehow feel better/more financially secure by delaying payment, is he somehow hoping that as time goes by I’l forget?
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dont tell us, tell him
dear Cuzz, you have not yet paid the $ x as we agreed on the 27th. Any delay may lead to a misunderstanding
your raidergal
and yes you have to ask for it - unpleasant I know
and dont lend to him again...
what is going froo his mind ?
"I hope she doesnt ask me for the money" is number one.
dear Cuzz, you have not yet paid the $ x as we agreed on the 27th. Any delay may lead to a misunderstanding
your raidergal
and yes you have to ask for it - unpleasant I know
and dont lend to him again...
what is going froo his mind ?
"I hope she doesnt ask me for the money" is number one.
Did he give you evidence of his agreement to pay in writing or text, if he didn't be could say he thought you had given it to him and deny any agreement to pay exists.
One trick you might try if you have no evidence is to text him saying you are still waiting for the £XXX but put an amount that is about £50 higher than you agreed. He is likely to text back to tell you the amount was £Xxx-£50 and then you will have proof. However this doesn't give you a date that was agreed.
One trick you might try if you have no evidence is to text him saying you are still waiting for the £XXX but put an amount that is about £50 higher than you agreed. He is likely to text back to tell you the amount was £Xxx-£50 and then you will have proof. However this doesn't give you a date that was agreed.
He might have simply forgotten? I wake up in the night and think OMG I was supposed to do a certain thing this week and I’ve forgotten.
At 20 years old he’s less likely than I am to set alerts or leave himself a note!
Just contact him and ask if he could transfer the money for the console now please.
It’s worth a reminder before you write him off as a thief!
Note to self, if selling an item hand it over after payment is received rather than beforehand.
At 20 years old he’s less likely than I am to set alerts or leave himself a note!
Just contact him and ask if he could transfer the money for the console now please.
It’s worth a reminder before you write him off as a thief!
Note to self, if selling an item hand it over after payment is received rather than beforehand.
One trick you might try if you have no evidence is to text him saying you are still waiting for the £XXX but put an amount that is about £50 higher than you agreed.
oh you little minx ! yes this works
I said - you took my grandfathers tantalus and sold it on the internet. - and here it is ! (shows photo of objaaaay on internet)
and Dicko said - no that one had cut glass decanters in it!
Dicko's girlfriend looked absolutely thunderstruck....
oh you little minx ! yes this works
I said - you took my grandfathers tantalus and sold it on the internet. - and here it is ! (shows photo of objaaaay on internet)
and Dicko said - no that one had cut glass decanters in it!
Dicko's girlfriend looked absolutely thunderstruck....
I was supposed to do a certain thing this week and I’ve forgotten.
yeah i do this: I discuss and agree a list of things to do ( my life is very slow) each Monday and sort of stick to it ( no change, ever).
Money lu-lu is sacred - In (small) business if you say -can you wait until friday I can pay then?
then a queue will for, outside your door later that day....
a discharged bankerupt said glumly: yes that is exactly what happens.
so you have to pay on the nail - he does
yeah i do this: I discuss and agree a list of things to do ( my life is very slow) each Monday and sort of stick to it ( no change, ever).
Money lu-lu is sacred - In (small) business if you say -can you wait until friday I can pay then?
then a queue will for, outside your door later that day....
a discharged bankerupt said glumly: yes that is exactly what happens.
so you have to pay on the nail - he does
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