What's your bigest worry/insecurity?

[Eve]

What's your biggest worry/insecurity?

[Scarlett]

That I will die before I have the chance to achieve what I am here to do in my career.

[Goodsoulette]

I have lots of nightmares about my kids. I wake myself up crying about what happens to them in my sleep and when I think about them getting hurt it puts a lump in my throat.

I sort of joke about being left on the shelf but the longer I have been single, the more confident I feel about it. I have my friends and my kids.

I sometimes worry that I will give in to the exs begging and just let him back like I did before. Although thats more down to my familys lack of belief in my ability to stay strong.

[counsellor]

Carakeel, you sound like such a sweetheart! make sure they look after you in hospital and if anything worries you question it! your mum sounds lovely... just like mine! i love family it makes me feel so safe and secure and happy..... xx

[counsellor]

Carakeel, you sound so lovely, your mum too.... i think family is important and makes me feel safe and secure... its lovely to have a close ans loving family....

[Carakeel]

Goodsoulette, I stayed on my own for over 20 years, didn't date etc. and I found I was very happy being on my own. But then I met an amazing man and soon realised that yes, I had been happy on my own but that I could be even happier and feel so complete with him in my life. We have been together for 20 months now, living together for 14 and have never had a bad word in all that time. We are both very laid back, love each other to bits and so find it so easy to get along and enjoy our lives. So, you never know what or who is around the corner. Best wishes to you xx :o)