my girlfriend

[brian1589]

ok im currently in a relationship that ive been in for 9 months. I find alot of things my girlfriend does greatly annoys me and i cant stand them. I'm trying to figure out if i just like her for the ass. Im thinking i might but i thought of breaking up and the image of her with another guy drives me crazy. although i love her dearly, she makes me depressed and i think i should try and get over her and maybe break up with her...but im not sure...what do u think i shud do?

[cascarelli]

She has a donkey? wow, thats handy!

[spk]

lmao @cascarelli :O)

[China Doll]

Break up with her Brian. No point in dating someone who depresses you even if they do have a nice ass....

[cascarelli]

funny you should say that......



no, i'll be quiet

[888sally888]

She's obviously not for you. And if her ass got old and flabby you would obviously dump her anyway - what a sensitive man you sound NOT!!

[China Doll]

Huh... not sure I'm speaking to you today Cas at all!

Yesterday you said that you didn't believe I had a pretty face and now you're having a go at my butt..... Honestly, I'm not just a sense of humour you know! ;0)

[cascarelli]

Guess thats the Christmas present knocked on the head then?

[China Doll]

And the christmas card too....

[PinkFizz]

She makes you depressed,the things she does annoy you greatly,you can't stand them,you probably like her just for her donkey - but you love her dearly!! Hmmmmmm......

[Saskia K]

hmmm indeed..... maybe if you have to ask, you already know the answer? i dated a guy once who had a lovely ass..problem was he was an ass, so i dumped his sorry ass , i missed the ass but not the ass so i found myself a decent ass attached to a stallion.. ...i hope that helps

[mizz_sweety]

what annoys u about her

[brian1589]

to be honest...shes very rich; gets whatever she wants..wears coach, louie vouton, prada, gucci, ETC. she just gets WHATEVER she wants...altho shes not stuck up about it, it annoys me and sometimes she flaunts the things she has.

[NH]

If she's truly the right person, you'll accept her flaws. Otherwise you're finished. Because essentially, all people are flawed; what makes them special to us is that those flaws are bearable, even endearing, rather than annoying.

It might be worth simply trying to cope with the things she does, because you have been with her for a whole 9 months, which is longer than most tries last. You could have a baby together in that time, it's that long.

The decision's ultimately yours, but don't take it lightly.

[WendyS]

You've just already answered your own question. If thoughts are already running through your head about not being able to tolerate some of her habits long term, there really isn't much point in thinking about about a permanent relationship, is there.
Sounds like you love her, but often don't LIKE her very much.

Have the courage to trust your instincts and move on to find somebody you can both love and like.

[hannah333]

You need to finish this - the longer it goes on the more it will hurt her.

[kgt]

She sounds like an ass . . . . . .