turmoil

[wizzer]

my partner has just told me that they dont love me anymore. we have been together 5 years, they are my life we have 2 kids, I feel like someone has just stuck a knife in my heart, I have never felt pain like it, Its like someone has just ripped my heart into two. My life consists of my family and now its been ripped apart that i dont know what to do, They have just gone to work and i have to carry on as normal infront of the kids. I dont know how i'm gonna cope. I gave up my family for this person. I now have no-one They will take the kids and I will move out.

[raysparx1]

wizzer, you take care matey, I hope you can work it out, don't give up hope, you come across to me as a very caring, kind bloke, Ray

[wizzer]

u know me ray. hows ur nephew doing? hope all is well there. take care

[noxlumos]

wizzer I know who you are and I know you think I don't like you, but listen to me for a moment. I know how you feel, it happened to me a long time ago in rather different circumstances but none the less it was essentially the same thing. There is no reason for you to lose custody of your children or to move out. I have custody of all of mine (I am male) and the odds were far more heavily against me than yours are. By the sounds of this, it's not the real thing anyway. She wants to talk to you. She wants you to realise something important, so listen and act on whatever is bothering her when you speak tomorrow. Let her know how much you love her and start from there.

[4getmenot]

Hope you have tried to sort a few things wizzer and may I also hijack your post to welcome sleepyj and lulu85, you'll love it here :-)

[raysparx1]

Hi wizzer,

Got who you are now, I will mail you later,hope you can talk today with your partner, wish you luck,take care, Ray

[PinkFizz]

So it WAS who I thought all along!

Awww,Not sure what happened last night hun.Did you two manage to have a chat at all?Is there any hope of salvaging this do you think?

xx

[crete]

wizzer, im really thick i have no idea who you were im not sure it matters, i have just read your question and im really sorry to hear your news. would it be possible that you both could get some time alone and discuss your issues, i noticed you said you have nowhere to go if you needed to leave the house, your local housing office may be able to help, be well.

[-Zorro-]

keep your chin up Glyn