I was NOT saying it is ok to have sex with 13 year olds, I was merely trying to point out that very close to home ( ie Spain) this boy would not be viewed as a paedophile, nor in my heart of hearts do I think that two teenagers should be by and large. I'm sorry but as the father of a large family of teenage children whom I respect immensely, I have a lot of experience of dealing with teenagers ( and their emotional well being) and your heavy handed antics ARE going to end in tears all ways round. However please go right ahead, but don't castigate people with an alternative view to yourself. If you wanted people to agree with you, you shouldn't have asked for people's opinions.
Jenna's experience is nothing akin to what you have described, you are talking about a young lad and girl, nothing out of the ordinary, blown out of all proportion, nasty words like paedophile being bandied about, when actually what you are describing is normal for that age group.You are not even her mother!!! Let her her mother deal with this why don't you? Or is that not enough of an attention drama for you? You aren't saving a child from a paedophile, so don't kid yourself you are, you are interferring in a young person's personal life and that is reprehensible.She will never forgive you.
It might interest you to know also that one of Britains most emminent police officers Dyfed and Powys Chief Constable Terry Grange, who is the Association of Chief Police Officers' spokesman on child protection and managing sex offenders also agrees with my point of view.
you might want to try denigrating his opinion out of hand as well and being rude to him too.
http://uk.news.yahoo.com/19112006/325/policema n-questions-paedophilia-policy.html