Breaking News....I'm Pregnant!

[nat_84]

Hello Everyone, Long time, no see!

Hope you're all well.

After weeks of vomiting, tiredness and a negative pregnancy test - a week or so ago i did another test with my boyfriend which came back positive.

*shock* *horror**confusion*

Came on here suggesting maybe i had a stomach flu of some sort - but was obviously wrong...

I've been to see my GP and need to make my decision this week - whether to terminate or not.

My mind had been going back and fourth...

My parents were shocked and upset - indirectly advised me to have an abortion - but said they'll support me either way.

If i did have an abortion it would break my boyfriend's heart...

I can see positives and negatives in both - but i'm a believer in fate - and being as this was an accident and not planned i think it may be one of those "meant-to-be" scenarios.

my main worry is that i currently live at home with my mum and brother - so i'd have to sort out the housing situation....and im also terrified of telling work! Although i know by law they have to give me maternity leave.

Me and my boyfriend both earn a respectable wage for our age (me 22 - him 25)so finances shouldnt be too much of a problem. I also don't doubt that we'll make good parents.

Any advice?

Opinions?

Thanks!
Nat xxx

[kTbug]

Girl, you do what is best for you, not your boyfriend. I am pro choice!
I have had a miscarriage, abortion and I am currently pregnant. I am 24 years old and totally ready to have a baby, so I made the choice to keep it. It's all about timing and just because you are living at home doesn't mean you need to terminate. Don't make a sudden decision, make an informed one!!!! Good Luck!!