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Breaking News....I'm Pregnant!
Hello Everyone, Long time, no see!
Hope you're all well.
After weeks of vomiting, tiredness and a negative pregnancy test - a week or so ago i did another test with my boyfriend which came back positive.
*shock* *horror**confusion*
Came on here suggesting maybe i had a stomach flu of some sort - but was obviously wrong...
I've been to see my GP and need to make my decision this week - whether to terminate or not.
My mind had been going back and fourth...
My parents were shocked and upset - indirectly advised me to have an abortion - but said they'll support me either way.
If i did have an abortion it would break my boyfriend's heart...
I can see positives and negatives in both - but i'm a believer in fate - and being as this was an accident and not planned i think it may be one of those "meant-to-be" scenarios.
my main worry is that i currently live at home with my mum and brother - so i'd have to sort out the housing situation....and im also terrified of telling work! Although i know by law they have to give me maternity leave.
Me and my boyfriend both earn a respectable wage for our age (me 22 - him 25)so finances shouldnt be too much of a problem. I also don't doubt that we'll make good parents.
Any advice?
Opinions?
Thanks!
Nat xxx
Hope you're all well.
After weeks of vomiting, tiredness and a negative pregnancy test - a week or so ago i did another test with my boyfriend which came back positive.
*shock* *horror**confusion*
Came on here suggesting maybe i had a stomach flu of some sort - but was obviously wrong...
I've been to see my GP and need to make my decision this week - whether to terminate or not.
My mind had been going back and fourth...
My parents were shocked and upset - indirectly advised me to have an abortion - but said they'll support me either way.
If i did have an abortion it would break my boyfriend's heart...
I can see positives and negatives in both - but i'm a believer in fate - and being as this was an accident and not planned i think it may be one of those "meant-to-be" scenarios.
my main worry is that i currently live at home with my mum and brother - so i'd have to sort out the housing situation....and im also terrified of telling work! Although i know by law they have to give me maternity leave.
Me and my boyfriend both earn a respectable wage for our age (me 22 - him 25)so finances shouldnt be too much of a problem. I also don't doubt that we'll make good parents.
Any advice?
Opinions?
Thanks!
Nat xxx
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Girl, you do what is best for you, not your boyfriend. I am pro choice!
I have had a miscarriage, abortion and I am currently pregnant. I am 24 years old and totally ready to have a baby, so I made the choice to keep it. It's all about timing and just because you are living at home doesn't mean you need to terminate. Don't make a sudden decision, make an informed one!!!! Good Luck!!
I have had a miscarriage, abortion and I am currently pregnant. I am 24 years old and totally ready to have a baby, so I made the choice to keep it. It's all about timing and just because you are living at home doesn't mean you need to terminate. Don't make a sudden decision, make an informed one!!!! Good Luck!!
