My Divorce came through today. I am now freeeeeeeeee!!!

[RATTER15]

I didn't put it in Relationships and Dating, simply because the relationship is no more!!! it is an EX relationship, the relationship is dead and now is the marriage.

I can be at one with my present love, carakeel!!!!

[raysparx1]

RATTER & Carakeel, Wish you both many happy years together, stay as you are you two,and have a great life, I know you have been together a little while now, but at last as you said RATTER the ex really is the EX, Ray

[Carakeel]

DARLING!!! Please rephrase that! LOL!!! XXX :o))

Grief!!! What is he like? Thank you all for your comments though. It really is nice to have my sweet RATTER's past finally legally sorted.

And yes Love, you are indeed a free man. Well, at least until I get the hand cuffs out (LOL) ... May you feel free spirited and so very much loved for the rest of your life my love! XXX :o)

[Roughquest]

Hi to both of you, but I cant help feeling a little sad that the marriage ended, forgive me but may i ask a little question, I am just curious, Ratter - How did you meet Carakeel? I don't quite know how to phrase this but were you having an affair ? and what made you decided to leave your wife?
I am pleased you have both found happiness again with each other, but am just interested under what circumstances you met each other - did you leave your wife for Carakeel ?
Sorry if Im being too intrusive, please feel free to tell me to butt out...
I believe in grabbing happiness with both hands no matter what, we only have one life.
RQ xxx

[RATTER15]

Hi Roughquest, I got no problem with your questions, you nosy ****** lol.

My marriage ended after I finally threw in the towel after years of grief from my wife, I had been physically attacked on many occasions, emotionally attacked on even more occasions, she was a very talented Women who really knew how to hurt you when you are at your most vulnerable.

I loaded up my camper van and headed for Portugal, I got as far as Dover and phoned my Wife to tell her I had left her, we talked a while and she persuaded me to come home again, so I drove the 250 miles home just so she could give me an ear bashing. I jumped back into my camper and drove back to Dover, I then crossed to France, drove 300 miles down through France, I then stopped to make a coffee and phone my Mum, My Mum was in tears I was in tears, so I drove all the way home and moved in with My sister for a while. All that without a wink of sleep!!!!

There was no third party involved in the break-up and I met carakeel online (but not in the AB) and we physically met as mutual friends with an interest in art at a sculpture garden where carakeel was exhibiting some of her work. I met carakeel some 18 months after my split from my wife.

And lived Happily ever after.

OK, RQ lol

[Roughquest]

Ahhhhhh, all is clear, thank you Ratter, lovely story, its strange how far one can drive on emotional energy huh? Been there myself. A story with a happy ending.
Well done.....and thank you for enlightening me...
BE HAPPY !
RQ xxxx

[naz_nomad]

Anywhere we can see some of Carakeels work online?

Seen yours, and was well impressed ...

[RATTER15]

Hi Naz, you can see some of her work on this site http://artandtherapies.com/ she is in the proccess of publishing a new website, under construction at the mo.