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MY STUPID LIFE!
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Okay where to start. I had this best friend and I've known her since I was little (keep in mind I'm in highschool). Well I got this boyfriend and she totally stopped talking to me. I wondered why but never really found out till a few days before we broke up. She liked him! And thinking it was best for us I broke up with him. Well as he's begging for me back I say well no b/c I want to have a good friendship with my friend! Its always friends before guys. She didnt have the same thing in mind. She told me "well I've chosen guys before friends in the past, and I think I'm going to have to do it now." My heart like stopped! She ended up going out with him. Then she started asking my friends why they don't drop me and hang out with her! I was so angry I even tried to fight her! A guy and a girl held me down as she ran away! Well my friends are also friends with her, and they said they're not going to stop being friends with her either. Well I feel so much anger for her and whenever they even mention her I get mad! They think I should get over it and be friends but somehow I can't! The only life I ever knew she forced me out of! How can I forgive what I can't forget? What should I do? I know it's long, but please somebody help!! Thankx Tons!!
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.where do i start ?i assume your a teenager,well my daughters 15 and she falls out with her friends almost everyday they all gather in the kitchen and **** of there mates and low and behold the next day shes back together with the one they wre all ****ging of??? and then they start all over again .is it some kind of rotary system going on here or what . all i say to her is try to enjoy your teenage years because before you know it your be off to uni or whatever lifes got install for you ,and you probaly wont even see these people again ,so cheer up dont be so angry ,try to enjoy your live .
This girl sounds like no friend to me. And the guy you were with obviously isn't worth bothering about either. Just get on with your life, don't let her get to you. Enjoy going out and your last years at school. Believe me, your years after school are absolutely amazing! Things seem hard now, but you will soon realise that you were growing up and had to learn alot of things. You will go through life meeting loads of friends and loads of guys!! It takes time to understand who your real friends are. Just think of this as a learning experience.
if friends let you down , male or female screw them. the same goes for boyfriends. they both deserve each other. id say youd be happier finding friends that wont stab you in the back like that. ive been through it all honey and now those years are forgotten about , im in love , ihave a beautiful son and i dont cast anymore thoughts for those who hurt me
Know way Amster222 the same thing happened to me!! The difference is though it was a year ago and it was my girlfriend. I felt exactly the same way i wanted to do some extreme stuff to the little bast"rd but i managed to hold back. What you need to do is act as if it doesnt pose a problem to you and try to be nice to both of them. Eventually they will argue, and then its your turn to not get mad but to get even. As you said all your friends hang around together then you have got the perfect opportunity to get your own back. (Make sure when their arguein, you are extra nice to the fella, it will **** the girl rite off and give him idea's. The girl should see him flirting with you and it will do her head rite in. this is what i done and it worked wonders. JUST REMEMBER, DONT GET MAD GET EVEN!!