Change your...

[diepretty__x]

Is it possible to change your personality?

does anyone know any good websites that could help with this... if anyone knows any books then that would be ok too, but I would rather somthing you can access on a computer...

And I mean completly chnge your personality to what you want it to be.

Im very curious about this...

and please, no "You shouldnt want to change your personality..." blah blah blah....

thank you XxX

[ladyshy]

Yes.

I used to do it quite regularly in my youth.

Although to be fair anything I changed to was a variation of my own personality and I just experimented with letting different sides out.

It's the same prinicpal as if you're depressed you paste a smile on your face. Or if you lack confidence you walk down the street like not only do you own it but people should also be asking your permission to use it... Eventually it becomes second nature and you actually end up feeling like that.

But it can back fire on you. Do you actually want to be that image in your head? Is that image in your head likeable? And is that image actually a part of your personality on the inside or is it completely made up? If it is completely made up then people will see through you in a nano second.

Concentrate on the things you like about yourself, perhaps you have a cheeky sense of humour but you're scared to show it or something and try and bring that side of you out.

But never try to be something you're not, you will come across as fake.

If it's a confidence thing then there's loads of self help books out there, I don't rate them but I have a friend who swears by then... mind you, she also goes for regular colonics....

Anyway, good luck to you either way tiddler.

[sair5412]

what about Paul McKenna's 'Change your life in 7 days' book and CD. He talks about changing attitudes and aspects of your personality. Have a look on amazon or play.com.

[lafrancaise]

This would mean you'd be actually going through life as an actor 24/24 7/7 also as an imposter. But why not?????
Keep whatever you've got that's different to the rest of us cos that's what makes it 's you. Artificial isn't nice!

[naz_nomad]

You only have to visit the Body & Soul section a few time to see it's entirely possible...

[crete]

no disrespect but no amount of books or web sites will change your personality you are genetically who you are , changing your personality would be such hard work, unless you are in the big brother house off course.

[-Zorro-]

I think Im unchangeable.

I pretty genuine but have crap social skills, so i think it would pretty difficult for me to change.