pervert husband

[tlc777]

a girlfriend of mine is always complaining about her pervert husband. for her this is embarrising and she never gets the chance to get horny herself because he is already trying to move in, which is a total turnoff to her. anyone w/this problem? how can she get him to back off so she has a chance to feel like she wants to have sex .

[flashpig]

I'm sorry that my answers are unhelpful. I was being a bit argumentative and was a bit drunk last night. I am sorry. The relationship is between them and not with you. If your friend's husband knows about how she feels then maybe he will change. Anyway, hopefully next time you encounter me on answerbank it will be under better circumstances, your friend will be happier and I will be less of a git.

[flashpig]

This is the second apology, the first doesn't seem to have worked. I was being a bit argumentative last night. I am sorry for winding you guys up with my unhelful answres. Hopefully your friend gets everything sorted out.

[tlc777]

im sure by now all you guys think im the friend who butts into everybodys buz. i just happen to be the one everyone comes to for advice. sometimes i hate that. most of my friends are on second or third marrige, so ive learned to stay out of it. as much as it may seem im trying to be in the middle of this, im not. i have no experience in marrital problems. i have told my girlfriend every bit of advice from this page and she thanks you. i wanted to tell her to go to therapy, but it just sounds better from a stranger. as you have pointed out advice from friends can prove to be a hazzard. i agree problems at home, should be kept at home. some things are just to personal. oh yeah smudge, i couldnt believe it when her husband called me. we arent the best of friends. i like him, but his wife is my friend for life, so i chose to see all the good i can, and not the bad, anyway i was shocked in the least that he would call. i didnt know what to do. so while out shopping for a book, i ran across how to romance your wife and on impulse, picked it up. so that was a liitle to much? if so i dont ever want to make that mistake again.

[smudge]

needanswers, I am also the sort of person people come to when they have problems & I'm only to glad to help. But in your situation, I can see it's very awkward for you to back out, but from now on, I think you should. It's obviously worrying you & that isn't good. Your friend won't abandon you just because you can't help any longer, well not if you are real true friends.