What would you do!

[ronnie3]

I 've got to see my sons headmaster after school today because of an incident where my son lied to cover up for his friend, thats fine and i will deal with it, but, its came out this morning that he(the head)has been having an affair with the secretary how much lying has he done, should i still take my son to see him.

[tradey]

well i hope you still took your son to see the headmaster. at the end of the day its got nothing to do with you or anyone else what the heads been up to,at the end of the day hes just doing his job regards to your son hope it went ok

[Lady Muck]

What on earth has this mans private life got to do with your child being in trouble Ronnie? Frankly I think you go in there and deal with the issue at hand which is your sons lying. Whether he was covering up for a friend or not is neither here nor there and as you said you can deal with that and are the best judge of that situation.

This mans affair is none of your business. The board at the school can take care of that.

China

[ronnie3]

OK i went to the head and he dealt with my son, told him why he shouldn't lie etc all very professional, although he wasn't his usual chatty self' i felt quite sorry for him. When i came out of his office i was pounced upon from parents wanting to see if anything was said I told them i didn't have a clue what they were on about. More lies, will this ever end.

[4getmenot]

yes you ended it there and you did the right thing, Gossip is a for the kids in the playground not the adults.

[Lady Muck]

They're not your lies to worry about. And since the bloke seems to have been found out then it doesn't appear that he's lying any more.

Once again...Whatever is going on with his personal life is between him and his wife and family. The school board can deal with the professional implications.

[joko]

oh get a grip!

"...will this ever end...", sheesh!

his job is to govern the school and teach your kids - that is all - his personal life is not your business.

[Pippa68]

...unless of course he was caught at it with the secretary in his office. However I can only guess ;o)

[crete]

no disrespect ronnie , but how many phone calls will you be making tonight, now you are in such a position ie to see the head today.

[Pippa68]

To be fair, crete..ronnie had te chance to say whatever he liked to the other parents at school

I do see his point, actually I see both sides. We don't know what the Head is like ~ he could have been a jumped up moralistic little Hitler fo all we know.

If so, if I can be quite honest, I can see how ronnie is struggling.

[4getmenot]

but why pippa yes this man may be really nasty lying b*stard, obviously if he's cheating. But it has nothing to do with her whereas her son has everything to do with the headteacher seen as he is his responsibility when at school.

[ronnie3]

pippa68 i'm a she.
crete i won't be making any calls the only person i have told is my mum who has no contact with school and you lot. It was just a shock because he seemed a nice guy and his wife is lovely he's been head for 10 years and the secretary is a slapper as she is well know in the community if you know what i mean.

[Pippa68]

My apologies ronnie ~ it wasn't clear from your post whether you were male or female.

[crete]

what a gosip you are ronnie ............

[havinmysay]

why was the secretary sacked and escorted off the premises when the headmaster obviously still has his job

[prattler]

and you're not a gossip crete? leave the poster alone and stop your snidey comments.i can finally see why you are known as the 'wasp'.

[Pippa68]

It does beg the Q doesn't it, havinmysay?

[crete]

the WASP ?