Hi figgydee,
First of all DO NOT MESS WITH YOUR EARS!!! Sorry if I sound like your mother, but it is important not to put anything in your ears at all. Make an appointment to see your Doctor, or the practice nurse if there is one, and get your ears syringed if necessary. It doesn't take long, and if it is earwax you've got, it will be removed safely and painlessly. If your doctor is part of a group practice, chances are they have a treatment room, and if so you can often just turn up during certain times without an appointment and get your ears attended to. Please don't try and cure yourself. (Sorry to nag but it is for your own good!) I sound like my mother now!!! :-)