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Was it ABH or GBH?
I was assualted by someone who hit me several times over the head with a vase left me bleeding heavily. . She also bit me but did not draw blood. I ended up with three sitches in my head and 2 black eyes and a large bump on my forehead.
Police said they were going to arrest her but I don't really understand what the crime is ABH or GBH - anyone know?
Also for personal reasons I don't want to press charges but the police are saying I don't have a choice as they will do it anyway. Can they force me to co-operate?
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No best answer has yet been selected by Jenniec. Once a best answer has been selected, it will be shown here.
For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.<P>I don't want to prosecute because she is a single mother with young children and has just been through a messy divorce. She has agreed to seek psychiatric help and is very apologetic and probably more upset than I am.</P>
<P>I know it sounds odd but I just want to help her - thats what friends are for.</P>
The courts are not ogres, nor are the police. Have you explained to the police how you feel about this? These days the police do have the right to prosecute whether or not you want to bring charges.
It is not beyond the realms of possibility that the finding of the court (if it ever got there) would be that the person who assaulted you would be ordered to seek medical help rather than being sentenced.
If you are still having doubts about whether to proceed, look at it like this: In some ways, a court ruling against her could be more help than you realise. It is a wake up call, and it can help to push her to the front of the queue for medical and family help. She is clearly not coping with things as they are.
Likewise, if she gets a police caution, the police social workers can help her to get help and medical treatment.
Even if you don't want to prosecute the woman, I would get a crime number and take it to the CICA and you should get compensation for your injuries, especially if they prevented you from working or venturing out etc. And although you think she is in a worse position about the whole ordeal than you, there is no excuse for what she had done to you and I would not instantly rule out taking it further, you never know what repercussions it may have in the future, I know from personal experience.