What to do.cont

[yummymum]

Bare with me....On new years eve we had a row which totally spoilt my night and some very nasty things where said by him, partly caused by the fact that I had tried getting him to go home at 3am so I could tell him some news I had {I was 3 months pregnant} anyway, again cutting a long story short only a week later things had got back to normal between us however he still hadnt mentioned the baby and to this day hasnt. Not only has he not mentioned it he hasnt told anyone including his mother even though i have asked him a few times. At the begining of this week we had another row this time caused because I said something about one of our dogs, this caused him to call me allsorts of names even though our little lad was there, I barely reacted out of shock and not wanting to do so infront of out our lad. He as carried this arguement on all week now and is now saying that we are finished. Ive got my scan 2morro and was really hoping that he would come but now it doesnt look like it. Also today I decided to tell his mum because on monday i need to tell my works and because i work with ppl I know i thought it best to tell her first. I really dont know if I should have gone behind his back like that and i am more clueless as what to do next, i hope this explains it in a good way there is sooo much more to the story but like i said i would be there all night.

[yummymum]

Got them wrong way round...read one below first

[yummymum]

ignore this post...i got the full thing in on a different post, it just took me a while!

[carlyo2le]

its sounds like hes not that interested in you or the new baby he also sounds a bit nasty think about it would you be happier and settled if you moved out and set up your own house for your new baby and 3 year old, its not fair on your children having to keep moving out and also youve got the kids tell him to get out!! theyl pick up on the arguments and thats not a good enviroment for them is it, be strong and good look think of your self and the kids not him!! x

[yummymum]

i dont live with at the moment i moved out a year ago and we have been seeing each other

[carlyo2le]

orr right sorry,, i think that you should stay were you are and just let him see the kids and make a new happy stable life together, have you asked him what he thinks about having another baby?