Anyone else...

[ladypink06]

know that their other half isnt getting them anything for valentines day? Just spoke to my bloke and found out he aint getting me anything, not even a card! so im a bit peed off, the thought would have been nice. am i over reacting?! x

[bednobs]

completely. Just keep whatever youve got him for yourself.
Valetines day is for school kids who want to send anonymous cards to the bloke/girl they fancy

[Blyss]

I know Im not getting anything ..no card ..no flowers ..no choccies .
hell Ill be lucky to get a cuddle!!

[redcrx]

well ive told my bf that i havnt got him anything and he doesnt seem that concerned. I usually get a card but really Im not fussed if i get anything or not, i know he loves me and vice versa

[BigMac]

Just a couple of thoughts: 1) Valentine's Day cards (and gifts) are meant to be anonymous; 2) won't it spoil the surprise if you know in advance?

How pleased will you be if there is "even a" card? Will you ask "Anyone else thought they weren't getting anything for Valentine's Day.... and then had a lovely surprise?"

Just FYI, Ladypink06, the bloke who works next to me thought he was very well organised, ordered the flowers for his wife well over a week ago - possibly last month - and has since had to endure a week's worth of being told "don't make a fuss...."

[4getmenot]

He'll be having you on. But if he hasnt its not about the presents or cards, to me its about spending time with the person you care about and I've just been told that I should no by now Wednesdays his Golf night with the lads. :-(

[ladypink06]

also told me he doesnt even wanna c me 2morrow now-when this morning he told me how much he misses me as we havent seen each other sice sat afternoon.

i jst though a bit of thought would have been nice, jst a card even, i do so much for him, a little appreciation wouldnt go a miss

[steviep165]

the other half knows i cant stand valentines, and that i think its just another money making excuse.
helping her unpack the shopping last night and she's only gone and bought me a card and a little pressie.
i hate it but now i feel like a git!!

[4getmenot]

Would you rather he went out and got you a card now because he knows you got him one or would you rather he was just himself and didnt bother? And can I ask did you actually ask him 'have you got me anything'??

[ladypink06]

lol. no i never asked if he got me anthing we was just talking in general about 2morrow and i said about meeting up as i have a lik something for me, he basically said dont bother, i dont like valentines day and i aint got u anything!

he thinks its a money making scam!!

[4getmenot]

well if he doesnt like it he doesnt like it

[Sasha13]

To be honest, i'll be mortified if the guy I'm seeing does get me something as it's all a bit casual at the moment and the thought of getting him something hasn't occured to me!

[Supernick]

Perhaps he's faking it? I wouldn't get too upset full stop, but I certainly would wait until at least Valentines Day passes.

Personally, I hate it, but then I find buying presents for anyone a horribly stressful experience

[Blyss]

when thinking about it , if your in a long time relationship you really dont need flowers and a card on valentines day.
In saying that ..it would be nice .lol
Im planning a nice meal for when he comes home but other than that ...it will be watching the tv and he will be in bed alone with his ice poles by 9.30pm.

[bobtheduck-]

you lot dont need any more chocolate :)

[unruliejulie]

me and my hubby dont really bother with pressies by mutual agreement but we do do cards and i would be very disappointed if he didnt get me one. Luckily for me hes quite romantic with this sort of thing. I make cards as a hobby so thats what im in the process of doing at the moment, although not getting very far :-)

[sophie_1003]

Even if it wasn't valentines day I'd be annoyed if I hadn't seen him in nearly 3 days and he showed little interest in meeting up! Hopefully he's got something planned, if not buy some flowers and thank him for them, he'll feel guilty for not actually buying you them and think he's got competition, bit of a risky way to go though!

[lorraine29]

My boyfriend told me the other day that he hasn't got me anything, altho I was disappointed as you usually makes an effort but he has been ill for a couple of weeks and has hardly been out, so I can appreciate why not (I will still be getting him something)