Can anyone help me with the name of this song

[hogmother]

There is a song I think from the eighties and it had a video. it is about a man who meets a mysterious woman on a train. It turns out that she had been found dead so he had been talking to a ghost

[scruffscat]

is it called "under yout thumb (forever) " by Godley and Creme ex of 10cc

[Golem]

... and you can listen to it here;

http://youtube.com/watch?v=URNdkV7C2hA

although we're still all trying to find the original video!