iv been with my boyf for 3 years, and last night i dreamt that he cheated on me with a girl from his work.
he used to talk about her quite a bit, but not so much now, should i say anything to him?
when i wake up from the dream, i feel really angry and annoyed with him even though it was a dream.
I have these dreams quite a lot. I ahve been with my husband for 5 years! I read a dream book and it says that it is because i would hate to loose him, very true but it kind of doesnt help understand it does it.
I would mention it to him. But try doing it in a jokey way, like while you watch the t.v or your eatting your dinner. Bring your dream up. I am sure that you have nothing to worry about. It might make you feel better though! xx
I've been with my bf for 5 yrs and i sometimes have those sort of dreams, but i probably have more where i'm cheating on him, even though i never have and never would.
i think sometimes you dream about something at the back of your mind that you're trying to ignore e.g. that your bf used to talk about this girl, and sometimes you just have dreams that are silly for the sake of being silly!
tell your fella about your dream and have a good laugh about it!
thank you both for your replies, i appreciate it!
i think i'll probably mention it but not make a big deal of it- an not mention who i thought he was with. and see what he says. you're probably right- its probably cos its t the back of my mind that i dreamt about it.
thanks again!
your dreams are about what's in your mind, not his! We all dream lots, every night, but remember very little of it; so I wouldn't worry about just one dream. If you have similar dreams a lot, though, it might be worth asking yourself why it's on your mind. I don't think 'a girl he used to talk about' is much cause for worry, though.
iv also been with my bf for 3 years now and have these dreams all the time sometimes i wake up and dont want to cuddle him or kiss because iv had this dream its silly int it!! i usually say to him hay you cheated on me last night!! hehe and we laugh about it its nowt bad!!