what should i do?

[x(:hehe:)x]

Theres this boy tht i like and hes relli nice but hes known to be a bit of a player. ive already been out with him but it didnt work and now he says he still loves me but doesnt want to go out with me. He then says can we be good friends who kiss... I relli like him but i dont know whether just to leave it or could there be a chance he relli does like me... Please help!

[freak_unique]

My advice would be to forget him , keep him as a friend and move on and find someone who does want to be with you! If he loved you that much then he would try and work it out with you, dont let him use you for kisses etc when he has no1 else...and the fact that he is a player is just self explanitory really!tell him strictly friends only or nothing at all!

[mammie]

i agree freak_unique he sounds like he wonts his cake and eat it too a bit too much in love with himself

[curlyperm]

No disrespect but you sound very very young, no problem with that ......BUT........ too young to be worrying over some lad who is obviousley out for what he can get?? i'd move on, forget it x

[redcrx]

what is a 'player'? and can a boy be a 'player'?

[Sasha13]

Nope - he's told you he doesn't want to go out with you so there isn't a chance he likes you in the way you mean. He just wants to keep you hanging on as someone he can call on when he wants 'to kiss'.

Redcrx - a player is (usually a bloke) who likes to have lots of girls on the go at once without any intention of being faithful. They don't like to be tied down - they like playing!!

[Sasha13]

Interesting that the term for a guy who does this is 'player' whereas for a girl it's normally 'sl@g' isn't it?

[ReinaLuna]

That's how our sexist society works, Sasha!