How do you know if somebody ( male ) likes you??

[Gabrielle001]

how do you know if somebody likes you, not being bigheaded, but people have told me i am really pretty,  i have been told that men don't go for pretty girls, either because they will end up letting them down, or are  to much hard work..........  so how do u kno if someone likes you even if they are not talking 2 you ???

[magicdice]

eye contact, body language, smiles. be bold, initiate conversation. see what happens. worst case scenario? nothing happens.

[TomTom]

Fancy a drink?? haha.

like said above, body language, facial expressions, and eye contact mainly i'd say.

[magicdice]

seriously, if a guy turns you down it's never as harsh as you think it'll be. presumably even less so if you're pretty.

[Andy008]

I can't believe that questions like this still get asked. If your'e a girl and your even slightly pretty, it's the easiest thing in the world to pull 98% of men. I mean, even if your'e a girl and your minging, it's still easy to pull most men.

[dimmy]

Sorry love your stuffed.
Sounds like you�re in much the same situation as me. I�ve been told similar things and my sister is always telling me that I�ve got girls after me but unless they come up and spell it out to me I have no idea, I cant read people especially girls who I 'v come to learn are just always dirty flirts and I have rubbish body language, if I fancy someone I�ll do everything wrong my already bad eye contact gets worse, and I turn into Chandler from friends. I�d like to think it's endearing but it's not. 
pretty girls do get the men after them (trust me I�m a man) but I find most really not girls are so used to the attention they no longer notice it and they become conceited and evil.
I don�t know why I�m replying to this as it�s my most hated subject.
Just don�t be a bitch as being hot is not everything if you wont a decent bloke.

[Little Lady]

I find it hard too Gabrielle sometimes, though when i get chatting to men they always say i seem too nice for a pretty girl, that is awful! I dont know what some women are actually like out there to men i feel sorry for them, i am always nice to everyone i speak to/meet and dont look down on anyone. I wouldn't say i get more attention at all than any other girl, i dont tart myself around in the least either. I must say i am quite fussy with men but im never nasty to them. I sometimes wonder too, but if there is someone i have taken a liking to i make sure they know with plenty of eye contact, body language etc and i hope they would do the same to me.

[willow74]

Well all i can say is that im glad you have your good looks going for you, because you obviously arent blessed in the brains dept!

Andy008 - I couldnt agree more.

[willow74]

The only 2% you couldnt pull are the 2% with heads bigger than yours !   : - )

Get a life

[Cockney_si]

More confident blokes will trip over themselves to get to you but unfortunately the less confident ones will probably think you are 'out of their league' and not bother to attempt to talk to you.

Most guys if they like you and don't want to talk to you will keep looking over to you, even to the point of being a nuisance until you turn and walk away or give them a frosty stare.

[Gabrielle001]

yeah it is easy to pull guys but its the ones who actually want to sick around is hard, some guys use girls or are only with them for there looks.

 

dimmy asl?? mine 18/f/uk

[myron21]

There are a couple of very easy ways to tell if someone likes you, or at least finds you attractive.  First of all you do actually need to talk to them to find out.  If you look in someones eyes when they are talking to you and you notice that the pupils in their eyes are widening, then you are on a winner.  If you are talking to someone and they start to do the same as you do, e.g pick up a pen the same time you do, or rub their chin at the same time as you etc etc, once again you are on a winner. 

From a mainly male perspective if you are talking to a girl and she runs her fingers through her hair or starts to fiddle with it, then you are DEFINITELY in luck.  I am 33 and to this day, not one woman I have ever talked to has ever put her hands anywhere near her hair, but I live in hope!

[12CHERRYS]

how do you know when somebody likes you?
when somebody likes you they willflirt with you mess around with you and even sometimes they willbe mean to you just to let you know that they like you but that is just there way of showing it.
i like somebody and i keep asking him out but he just keeps saying maybe but you know what that means that means that they might say yes but dont get your hopes up because sometimes it can mean no but dont worrie there are more fish in the sea.