IMPORTANT! I've done wrong but I don't feel it!

[chimpanzee]

There is this guy that I've always fancied the pants off. He's gorgeous, kind, funny and caring. I adore him.

We flirted a bit and I was really hopeful, then we 'made love' after sometime. I was SO happy, I felt like I'd found 'the one'.

This didn't last long when I found out he had a long term girlfriend! I felt awful, really bad and immediately ended things. He told me his girlfriend wasn't nice and she always made him feel little. But I still stopped everything, even though it broke my heart.

Anyway, as I got to know his girlfriend (they both work in a local shop) I realised that she wasn't very nice. She put him down a lot, lied and bossed everyone around. Yeah, she's pretty and thin and that, but she hasn't got a nice heart and makes this guy feel awful.

So...things happened, my and the guy got together, even though they're living together now, and we have the most amazing relationship. He's ABSOLUTELY PERFECT and I can't imagine life without him. I used to feel crap about being the 'mistress' but after seeing his girl, I don't. Is this wrong? She's awful and he says he loves me, and I love him. I can really see us having a future together.

It all seemed a bit of fun until I missed my period and now I fear I'm pregnant. I have no idea what to do. I love him with all my heart but his girlfriend gets in the way completely.

WHAT SHOULD I DO???

[Reverandfunk]

Absolutely perfect? Doesn't believe in fidelity though. Without sounding too harsh, if he can cheat with you he can cheat on you. If his girlfriend is such a bad person why is he still with her? I don't know how old you both are but if you are pregnant and have the child will he be there? Does he want kids? Do you? Think you need to sit him down and lay it on the line, you or her but if he picks you whats to say he wont cheat on you? To be honest I think you need to wake up and smell the coffee, but I hope it works out for you.

[redcrx]

forget about the fact that hes cheating on a girl who he is living with.
The main thing here is to find out if you are pregnant so that you can then make decisions. Simple, go to a chemist, buy a test, follow the instructions and see what the result is.


Oh and if this girlfriend of his is so nasty, why did he move in with her after he slept with you (if im reading you comment about them living together now right)? Surely he would have left her before it go to the co-habitting stage?

[mangosam]

well if he does love u he should leave his girl friend and stuck with u and it is possible that if he can cheat with u he can ceat on u be on your guard

[chimpanzee]

Mani Hussain you're a total idiot! You've no idea!

[chimpanzee]

You're probably Muslim too!