man language!

[charlotte247]

right when a guy says hes not ready for a relationship, what does it actually mean ?
cos i was seeing this guy for a couple of weeks, he said he *wasnt ready for a relationship* but hes callled me and txt me most days since, im confused, i thought he was just dumping me, but hes always saying i look nice and making excuses to come see me. im really confused
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[4getmenot]

He�s just lonely but doesn�t want to commit, he wants his time with his mates but you there to basically use. At least he�s being honest, he just wants a bit of fun.

[charlotte247]

ok thanks
all answers appreciated
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[tfb]

it would usually mean he is after a very casual realtionship id say as 4get said if yr ok with that then fine but it really depends on wat yr after from a relationship

[liquidspace]

He's keeping his options open, sounds like he didnt know if he was really into you and is testing the water. Maybe now he realises he does like you. Go with the flow, nothing should be pushed. As the others say, it depends what you want.

[4getmenot]

as others on here might know. I was seeing someone about 2 years who used to say exactly that. I've seen the light and realised he wont ever know what he wants and I was just a bit of comfort to him until he found someone better. I knew what I wanted all along but kidded myself I could change him. So at start of this year I got rid and I'm now really happy.

[laurenm82]

I was seeing a guy for about 7 months who kept saying "he didnt want a girlfriend at the min" its totally a get out clause i think! yet he would still text and ring all the time. I realised he wasnt really in to me and i was probz just something "to do" now and again. Get rid I say Charlotte!!! :-)

[charlotte247]

thanks guys, love you all!
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