Flirting !

[Black Noir]

Any opinions on married people flirting with the opposite sex?
A/ Dangerous and could get out of hand or
B/ Blows away the cobwebs and makes you feel good about yourself ?

[Coffeeman7]

I would go for A, theres a lot of temptresses out there!

[4getmenot]

Definately B. whats the harm in flirting. !! I mentioned some bloke being a bit of allright the other day and someone said but he's married and you've got a bloke. so just coz of that all other men are ugly???

[Black Noir]

Coffeeman - I am a laayyydeee! Although have been chatted up by a bird before ! So cant disagree whole hearted with your comment - I am not a "lesbo" btw

[ummmm]

B/ as long as they have some self control

[browneyedgir]

B definitely. Don't think there is anything wrong with flirting (if you are already in a relationship or the other person is) as long as that is where it stops.

[ALLO5775]

a and b. it depends on the person. i wouldn't flirt with a stranger, but i've flirted with my husbands brother. harmless though. i knew him before my husband. and he's closer to my age.(hubby has 9 yrs on me) but i know i would never do anything wrong with him. we've been flirting for years.

[Coffeeman7]

I think some people don't take marriage seriously, have you seen that show cheaters? The cobwebs should be sorted out with your soul mate that you married or there is something wrong with the relationship.

[ALLO5775]

coffeeman---me?

[Coffeeman7]

ALLO5775 my answer does seem a bit black and white after seeing ur response... As long as your talking about really really innocent stuff and I have noted that you knew him before. You have pulled me a tad into the grey area!

[ALLO5775]

coffeeman-- i love my husband. i would never cheat. he knows the things his brother says to me. i've recently gained alot of weight.(3 babies in 4 yrs) my brothir-in-law just likes to compliment me when i dress up, or do my hair...... it makes me feel good about myself. i would feel better if my husband was the one doing it, but he doesn't. but like i said i'm really close with my brother-in-law. he's always been that way since i met him. and i've known him longer. not that that really matters.

[joko]

there is a big difference between being flirtacious and flirting... flirting is a deliberate, focussed action, aimed usually at one person to imply attraction.

being flirtacious is sometimes just the way someone is in those situations, and can be directed at anyone and means nothing..

[nutgoneflake]

I'm happily married - ten years this year - and would never cheat, or even consider cheating. Last summer, I bumped into a customer I knew from work who'd never seen the boys, not seen me for six years or so. We had a catch-up chat, not flirty at all. It was just nice to talk about my 'old' life before children, with someone who I'd known then, and I'd have been happy at that. As he drove off, he said with a twinkle. "You've still got a lovely arse." It may sound a bit crude, but I was really chuffed! It made me feel a little less like a mum, and a little more like me again.

I see no harm in it - I even told my husband!

[see me]

yes, flirting can be a good booster for you, BUT sometimes it does get out of hand. Then you end up feeling bad because your husband is at home waiting for you. Guess what... he probably flirts to. Both A and B are correct but if you flirt be easy with it. Like my Friends say "you can look but you cant touch".
(this is coming from a teen that has to sit and watch her boyfriend flirt with a preppy chick all 4th period, but trying to get back at him makes me feel like crap)