2nd time around

[fuggy]

how many of you have been in a serious relationship,? say engaged, then the relationship ends. after some time the relationship is reignited. do they have a happy ending, or it breaks up once more?

[mysticman]

I kept trying with someone, break up, go back, break up etc etc. Finally I realised we were not that good together!

Soooo glad I realised that.

[sam82]

I have been in a serious relationship and we split up for 2 months!! we both had no intentions of getting back with each other, but after 2 months we both talked openly and we have been back together now for a year and things couldnt be better..

alot of people told me not to get back together fair enough i could have listened to them, but i would be the one living with the regret if i didnt follow my heart..... so i went for it, our relationship was good b4 but we did have a few problems! we sat down talked about them and we have over come them, our relationship now is so much better.

im glad i did...

My parents got together in there late teens, then split up got back together and they have been married for 25 years...

Same with my partners parents....

[raysparx1]

Hi fuggy,

Well they can end happily, I had been going out with my girlfriend for 5 years,we were engaged, we split up, got back together a year later,3 months after that we were married and have now been married 35 years,so it really can work. Ray

[caz247]

i was in a relationship six years ago and we split up
no big fall out just drifted apart. anyway i wrote to him
about three weeks ago and he has been in touch by
phone and e-mail. on monday he texted me and suggested meeting at weekend and i am so nervous about it. obviously i want to go but didnt think i would be
full of anticipation. could it work second time round
all i can say is.....................watch this space

caz x

[raysparx1]

Good luck caz, it can work XX

[ummmm1]

Learn by your mistakes.....It gives the second chance a better chance!

[Pootle]

I hope so. I split up with my girlfriend of almost 4 years beginning of the year, broke my heart. I was always convinced it was more about her wanting to be by herself for a bit (she is a couple of years younger than me) and left her alone for about 8 months. Slowly started getting in contact, we�ve been out a few times and maybe just maybe, things are starting to happen again. Most of my friends think I�m crazy and think I should just walk away. I suppose some things in life are worth fighting for whatever the emotional cost. If it doesn't work out, I can honestly say that I done everything I can.

[christina81]

The thing you should ask yourself here is why did you break up in the first place? You have also got to realise that you can't change people so you either have to accept them as they are or not! If its because they cheated on you the other question you have to ask is can you ever really get over it?