Holiday alone or with company?

[efc]

I've got a real dilemma!
I'm going on holiday on 11 June (alone) and quite looking forward to it.
However, the fella i've been seeing for the last couple of weeks now wants to come with me.
Do I let him or do I go alone?
He's really nice, the only problem being that he hates football. Not a problem at the moment but not sure how he'll be when the football season starts and I can't really see him lasting very long!
I don't want to lead him on in anyway so do I let him come on holiday with me or continue with my original plans and go alone?
Haven't even checked with the holiday company yet so it may be a 'no go' anyway!

[unruliejulie]

Hi efc, its early days for him to want to muscle in on your holiday. If i were you i'd just tell him this one was booked for one, maybe next time he could go with you and then see how it goes! Don't take him with you just to avoid upsetting him and to be honest, it doesnt even sound as if its going to be a long term thing anyway. Go alone and tell him you'll bring him a pressie back! ;-) where are you off to anyway?

[efc]

hi unrulie - I'm off to Corfu for a couple of weeks. Really looking forward to it as well as i've become a real workaholic lately. I do have a couple of friends that live over there who I plan on meeting up with so won't be totally alone all of the time.

[mrrobbo15]

go by yourself......you had it all planned in your mind and someone else coming along will mess it up and maybe (maybe not tho) get on your nerves...

have a blast !!!

[efc]

mrrobbo - think you could be right. There are also some England U21 matches on that I want to watch while i'm away and I really don't think he'd enjoy them lol.
I hate upsetting anyone though!

[Goodsoulette]

Dont worry about the footbal thing EFC how many girls go out with guys that are obsessed with it. You are bound to dislike some things he loves. Football is a bit contagious he mught end up liking it a bit because you do.

You havent actually said whether you want him to go or not. If we all didnt do things because the relationship might not last, we would all be single. If you want him to come, let him, if not dont.

[efc]

think you've got a good point Goodsoulette - if truth be known I don't think I do want him to come with me - just hate the thought of upsetting him.

[unruliejulie]

hey efc, he'll get over it. surely he will understand that you are all prepared to go alone and to be quite honest, if he gets the hump over this then maybe he's a bit immature for ya! Tell him you have friends you want to meet up with, i dont see how he would want to encroach upon that at this stage in your relationship. Have a fantastic time anyway!

[dot.hawkes]

he'll not get on the flight at this late stage i don't think, and if he does, he would have to be in your room and it would cost you to change your booking, which he would have to pay charges for, so he is better off stopping at one and letting you have a great time without him lol

[Scylax]

Strangely enough, I'm all for decisive women who
have the maturity to be independent.
I suggest you tell the guy that this is your holiday,
not his. Why is he so intent on changing your
personal plans ?

Stick to your guns, lassie, and go solo.

[Panic Button]

If you really wanted him there you wouldn't be asking us.

Stick to your plans

Oh, and if you want Jason Koumas can you give us Baggies a shedload of money please?