bf going on holiday

[jen85]

is anyone elses boyfriends going away over summer? today im feeling really down and cant stop thinking about him going away with his mates. i wont b seeing him for 3 weeks as im away for two weeks with my family and he goes half way through my holiday. there r about 9 of them going and basically its for a 2 week **** up. i know that i can trust him i just cant stop thinkin about what would happen if they met another group a girls. when he has a drink i often look after him as he is out of it completly and im worried about him not knowing what he is doing. he used to smoke but gave up last year but all of he's other mates do and im concerned that he will begin again whilst he is away. to make matters worse his ex gf of 3 years who he split with just before getting with me is going to be there at the same time on a girls holiday. i dont think it can get any worse. im making myself so down by thinking about it so much :o( anyone else in the same situation? x

[treacle84]

Hi Jen, I was in a similar situation to you a couple of years ago when my fella went to Kavos. I was a bit like you, worried, nervous and all that but there isn't really anything you can do. You've just gotta trust him. The only thing that gets to me is that all his mates would say 'what happens on the holiday stays on the holiday' and I know at least 2 of them cheated on their girlfriends so it does make you wonder but you can't let it eat you away. That was in 2004 and he hasn't been away on holiday with them since which says a lot although I don't think I'd really object to it cos we're only 22 and 23 and need that space with our friends. Chin up girl and just enjoy your holiday :)
like lucy locket said, slip in a sexy pic of yourself so he knows what he's missin x

[Neilzulu1]

Is he taking a lot of condoms,if he isnt get him checked into a STD clinic on his return.

[missrandom]

I hate to say it but i'd be worried. same situation when i was 17 and my bf(now husband) was 22. things did happen that i didnt aggree with! i was able to forgive, for some reason, we hadnt been together long only a few months. but now if I didnt want him too he wouldnt. I dont think your being selfish. youve got to accept it and carry on, and hope nothing happens, but sorry it may well do. xx

[ANGELEYES07]

freak that thats is very difficult i would definitely have a big issue with that....but if u trust em then let it go and don't drive yourself nutts because men seem to always have that effect on us woman so let it go and if he is stupid enough to screw up than he's not worth being with......

[ANGELEYES07]

mr.ben5 just because your a doggg doesn't mean there aren't any respectable real men that truly love there girl and who are aware of the consequences of cheating!!

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, why am i a dogg angeleyes?
I was just stating what young lads get up to whilst on hoilday with their mates.
You more than anyone should know what its like to worry about a guy as you clearly seem to have been messed around and been bagged off many times in your life.
Jen85, read all the answers and make your own mind up. Thats what this site is for...

[EmEd1984]

Mr Ben5, how about if it was a stag weekend/holiday? Obviously thats boys only!!

[CactusButtus]

G'day Jen85,

I am currently on holiday seeing my family and I am not allowed much contact with my partner as it upsets my family. It's reeeeally hard. My family won't accept my life choices, and my partner is one of those life choices. The 3 weeks your boyfriend is away will be tough, but just keep yourself occupied and you should be fine. I'm visiting my family for 5 weeks and personally I've already had enough... I think it might have something to do with the size of my family. LOL. They drive me a little crazy at times. I'm only 12 days into my visit and I already wanna go home... cruel but true. ;-) If you trust your boyfriend to do the right thing, you'll be fine. Tell him how you feel if you want to.

Jaymee-Lee