People jumping to conclusions

[sexiruskiee]

I loved my brother very very much so when he died 4 days ago I was devastated.The funeral is tomorrow and there is a lot of people going. I have decided not to go as I know I will not be able to take the emotion of the day and will be too emotional.It is not that I didn't love him and can't be bothered. I will remember him in my own special way tomorrow.
My parents however are very angry and say I am selfish.Why do people always jump to conclusions? Has anyone else been in a similar situation?

[sexiruskiee]

You are right psychick but I'm still very immature and it is easier said then done to change your ways so that suddenly you are a sweet lovely girl.

[4getmenot]

so you do have 4 brothers or did that have all commited suicide? and you were married last month now you're a lesbian again. Ok dont go, I dont think many of us care either way anyway

[redcrx]

but she was 19 a few weeks back when taking about being pregnant and was also 19 when she had the twins last year, although she was with a gay lover then.
Its no wonder i find any post so hard to believe nowadays.

[redcrx]

wasnt the remaining brother in care? ( the post where you complained that you father spent more on your brothers care than he did on you and your lifestyle springs to mind) I hope your parents have asked for an investigation as to how he managed to commit suicide whilst under the watchful eyes on doctors etc

[Hellyon]

I'm not sure the schizophrenia did miss you.......

[Surreylass]

As unbelievable as it all sounds there is still that 20% chance its real and so i answered thinking in the 20% train of thought.

If you are a compulsive liar then perhaps you have this disorder also that you are talking about

[redcrx]

surreylass I answered firstly in case it was real, sadly if it is (which i now really doubt) its the 'calling wolf story' she was warned so many times about.

[society]

People this is a wind-up. It's Friday, the weekend ... Ruskee is bored and ....

[moonshadow]

Well I think it's sick and it's about time they were banned.Quite a few people on here have lost loved ones lately and she/he is making a mockery of their genuine loss as well as making fools of fellow Abers.

[sexiruskiee]

He was in care yes and he managed to commit suicide while in care. My parents are doctors themselves and know the workers in the mental home so I doubt they would even consider legal action.I am 18, I had 4 brothers and 1 sister.There's no point asking me about figures and facts that are irrelevant.

[Psychick]

facts and figures you can keep up with amongst all the lies you mean?

[joko]

don't go.

you will undoubtedly turn it into the 'me, me, me' show and ruin it for everyone.

[Xiomara]

I've never heard of a funeral being held on a Saturday.