a situation with a older woman

[SONY28]

i have another question i am dealing with a older lady and we have a good time together and she would com and spend the night at my house now she is saying we can't do those things anymore because she feels guilty about my age.she is 44 i am 28.so i was wondering was she doing this to make sure it's not just sex and to see if i really like her.i do like her. advice please!!!!!

[maddog 1]

if u really love this woman and she really loves u what is stopping the pair of u just making a go of it.age has got nothing to do with it not if u 2 are ok with it dont go through life saying what if. or she might not love u has much as u love her. so ask her get the cards on the table and find out what u both want.

[cheyenne]

like her or love her?most woman i would have thought would like a toy boy on their arms,or is she trying to end this setup because she has found someone else?you have to sit down and talk like MADDOG suggests.or are you just useing each other for sex?communication is the answer SONY?.

[Oneeyedvic]

I am now married to an older woman. We started going out 8 years ago, and tied the knot last year. Contrary to popular belief, the woman does not like having a toy boy but feels embarressed. Iam 30 and my wife is 54. She has always felt guilty about my age and was not sure about the relationship. Talk through everything and take things slowly. If you are in love, try and work at the relationship (as you have to do with all reltationships) and have fun. My wife also has 2 kids (23 & 25). She has never told her family my age, and they haven't asked. They know that we are happy together and both gave their blessing when we married.

[keirah]

Explain how you feel age gap relationships do work im 22 now and my fiance is 44 and we ahve been 2gether since i was 17 explain to the old dear im sure she will understand

[country_boy]

She may be worried she's robbing you of your youth, but then you're no spring chicken anymore! I think she just needs reassurance that you really want to be with her. Good luck!