Male Friends

[China Doll]

Hi All,

There has just got to be a way to tell for certain if a male friend of yours likes you as more than a friend! It can't all be guess work and 'signs' that go flying over my head every time.

I'm thinking a placard above their heads or possibly writing in the sky but I'm willing to take other slightly more subtle suggestions. Humping your leg I'm guessing would also be a useful if distasteful sign.

Seriously though. Any suggestions out there. I've a couple of male friends that are causing me a serious headache at the moment and before I even begin to tackle it (no puns, please no puns) I need to know if what I suspect is the problem is the problem.

So before I go walking in there with my size 9's is there just a really obvious thing to look out for?

Cheers
China xx

Ps: Anyone suggests anything to me about the size of their pupils and I really will pull a massive strop... who in heck notices that kind of thing?!

[Dusty Bin]

Watch if he's looking at your chest!

[jon1968]

Wuss!

[tiny e.a]

Hmmmm, it is a very tricky situation. I always think you should trust your gut feeling. I mean, unless you're particularly deluded or have a far to high an opinion of yourself (neither of which applies to you I should think)you're not going to just think they might like you for no reason surely?

Although, I've sometimes thought male friends fancied me and after a while have decided that they didn't at all, but these are only vague and brief feelings on my part (probably coming when I'm being particularly self loving!), if I really felt, over a periond of time lasting more than about a month that one of them may fancy me I would probably trust my intincts.

Actually, that's easy to preach but the truth is I've never really believed anyone but my boyfriend has fancied me but surely the law of averages suggests at least one more person must have?! So, in conclusion, I just don't know I'm afraid. Sorry!

[coffeeman]

well kiddo

i think if you already suspect it you are probably right...

i would also say ..that eye contact is the key..we men just can't help those extra few seconds of eye contact with a girl we are attracted too..

oh and we will laugh at all your quips and jokes as though you are a genius of comedy regardless of the content or punchline..

other than that ...get drunk and ask them face to face..

good luck and Carpe Diem..

[Whickerman]

Here's a quick guide - if you use it it'll never let you down, but don't blame me for the results...

Ask yourself "Is he gay?" If no, move to Question 2.

Question 2 "Do I have boobies?"
If yes, he wants to sleep with you.

[China Doll]

cheers people! xx

[B00]

I'm still giggling over the word "boobies", im so childish!

[China Doll]

Boobies, the name has and always will suit you in my head!

Now I just have to learn to read minds and the whole problem this thread concerns will melt away.... while I'm wishing, I'd likke to win the lottery too!

[B00]

Can I presume you call me that coz i'm a right t1t?

[dot.hawkes]

I agree, it is all in the eyes.

[China Doll]

No... but I like your explanation better ;0P

[B00]

cow!!!

lol.

[China Doll]

MOO!!!!

LMAO!

Well you walked in to it....

[Gromit]

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