jules, drinking milk will fill her up even more and she will eat even less. My daughter has been a extremely faddy eater since 18months old, she is now 3 when I refused to give into her demands she didn't eat a thing for 3 days and then I did give in! She has seen various doctors and they told me I was doing all the right things ie not getting mad, serving small portions, ignoring tantrums and doing reward charts. It has only been in the last 6 months that she eventually was persuaded to try tiny mothfuls of new foods and now she eats a whole lot better but is by no means like her friends at nursery. randomsasha I suggest you do as others have said, ignore this behaviour and try her with a reward chart and only give attention when she eats, also, don't give her snacks in between meals.