Best ways to get revenge ???

[Jenni_luvved]

My ex told me last night that he doesnt love me, never has and he loves his ex still, despite tellin me 4 months that he loves me so so much etc, and he also admitted 2 cheating with her. I basically collapsed on the floor in floods of tears absolutely heartbroken, and he just stood there laughing at me.

I feel so betrayed and so so hurt and i dont know why he said he loved me so many times when he now says he never has, he tried 2 love me but obviously couldnt fall for me so whats the point in bein with me (his words)

It may sound childish but i want to get serious revenge on him, hes broke my heart so bad and made me suffer so much, so now its his turn.

Plz any suggestions ??

[radiogaga]

by the way you cannot be friends with him. he's just saying that to make himself feel better. and why would you anyway?
dont feel bad or worse, you are doing great.
he is not worth cleaning the soles of your shoes. meaning he's worthless

[888sally888]

Do you really want or need a friend like him in your life?

You are worthy of much better and he does sound up himself and very arrogant!

Smile and enjoy your life - I promise it will get better and trust me I have had some REALLY bad times x

[WendyS]

Well, of course you feel like revenge. He's hurt you desperately and now you want to make him hurt too so that he knows what it feels like. But all you will be doing is allowing him to have more power over you while you waste more of your life thinking negative thoughts and using up your emotional energy. However hard it feels, try to tell yourself that he has now shown his colours in their true light and be thankful that you have discovered this now, rather than later. You've said he was your "Ex". So now make sure that he really is your EX, and remove him from your life completely, however much effort it takes. Don't take any more phone calls from him. Don't meet up with him and don't talk to him. Look forward and be assured not all men are like this. You just got a duff one. But give yourself time to get over your feelings of hurt before embarking on a new relationship otherwise your bitterness might show through and put off a perfectly nice guy next time round.

[blu3wave]

I had a friend who was in a similar situation as you.... and Thought she loved the guy, but after a month or so got over him quickly and didn't understand why she'd been slightly upset when she'd found out about him and his fat bovine Ex. Anyway, she has since moved on, she knows she can and will find someone else (surely better) but the guy with his frumpy ex (who no-one else would touch with a bargepole coz she's so fugly) is still hanging around and sometimes waves and says hi. My friend doesnt have any hard feelings, she actually feels a bit sorry for him and thinks he could pobably do better.......
So there's really no need for revenge, if it makes any sense.