Best ways to get revenge ???

[Jenni_luvved]

My ex told me last night that he doesnt love me, never has and he loves his ex still, despite tellin me 4 months that he loves me so so much etc, and he also admitted 2 cheating with her. I basically collapsed on the floor in floods of tears absolutely heartbroken, and he just stood there laughing at me.

I feel so betrayed and so so hurt and i dont know why he said he loved me so many times when he now says he never has, he tried 2 love me but obviously couldnt fall for me so whats the point in bein with me (his words)

It may sound childish but i want to get serious revenge on him, hes broke my heart so bad and made me suffer so much, so now its his turn.

Plz any suggestions ??

[radiogaga]

please try to walk away from this creep without resorting to revenge.
i KNOW it's hard but you'll just be lowering yourself to his level,
he sounds a right a$$hole and you are better than that.
you have every right to be angry, but try to channel this some other way. radio. xx

[oldgrape]

the biggest revenge you can have is making ur self look good and lead a happy and full life
he will see u like that and wish he was with u

[blu3wave]

Well he's lost you, probably the best thing that happened to him in his entire sad life. Leave him to his new 'gf' the gorrilla ..... he'll soon see what he missed altho he'll NEVEr admit it. I hope he leves you alone now.

[4getmenot]

I agree with oldgrape leave it move on and lead a happy life, that will pee him right off. Good Luck and chin up. xx

[confused79]

The best revenge is walking away with your head held high and showing YOU are the better person.

Without trying to make your situation sound menial i had very bad things happen to me by my ex too much to go into detail to be honest im lucky i made it through without doign myself in. I definatly found the best way to get revenge was to sort myself out and show i was the better person by coming out on top, and i have and glad to say i have proven that i am the stronger person.

Thats what you need to do rise above, it trying to get back at him onyl makes you the same as him.

As the good old saying goes ' two wrongs dont make a right'.

[blu3wave]

revenge does help you get rid of the anger a lil bit tho. They dont say 'revenge is sweet' for nothing :)

[gina32]

i agree with radio and oldgrape, he is probably expecting you to fall apart and beg for him to take you back and try again blah blah blah, but as much as its going to hurt and you think that the pain will never go away its something you must do, hold your head up and realise you were to good for him anyway, and that its him thats lost out not you, 6months down the line you'll look back and realise what a tit he was and how much better off you are without him. forget about revenge its not worth it

[4getmenot]

but whats the point. It doesnt make you feel better at all.

[blu3wave]

when it doesnt, it means you've forgotten him and moved on.... now ifonly it worked both ways!!

[4getmenot]

well even if you've forgiven him or not to some nice people with good hearts getting revenge only makes us feel bitter afterwards

[4getmenot]

and also makes you look the childish one

[blu3wave]

yeah i'd like to give that advice out to someone who's on here all the time. you know who you are :)

[4getmenot]

that stopped me in my tracks for a moment there, but its that blinking tuna advert isnt it. Ha ha

[Beads]

He sounds horrid and from the way you've described him I think he would almost get satisfaction knowing you're bothered. So the revenge would be in the not acting bothered.

Although it doesn't seem like it at the moment you are far better off without him. If he cheated on you with the ex, he'll cheat on her too.

I know you'll feel like ripping his eyes out right now and popping them on the barbie whilst he staggers around in the background, but I would ensure that each time you go outside of your front door you are dressed in your fave clothes with a big smile on your face so that should you bump into the 'happy' couple they'll wonder if you were that bothered about him in the first place.

Even if you feel really terrible and run home after for a cry - he won't know that. I would imagine secretly he'll question your feelings for him. If you have any spare cash I'd also go to the shops and treat yourself and arrange a night out with some good girlie pals. There's nothing like a good night out with the girlies.

[blu3wave]

Besides, jenni, did you really love him? Sometimes we think we cared but it could just have been a moxture of other stuff going on in your life that made you feel like you did. If you feel ok now, then it never mattered or meant much to you in the first place. Hope u r ok, good luck

[tiny e.a]

You could pull his hair and call him fat?

[earsugar]

if you want revenge, go for it.

He hasn't been true to you, no need to laugh at you. Try these people
http://www.thepayback.com/

[Jenni_luvved]

i saw him in town today he was outside where he works, and we spoke breifly, he told me he really doesnt want me or feel anything for me, so i said fine and walked away and he was like no dont walk away, i want us to be friends, he then tried to call me a few times throughout the afternoon but i didnt answer, and then i had a message saying he was worried i had killed myself or something, which i found annoying he thinks that much of himself he thinks i would kill myself over him, but i phoned him after that and shouted at him that he wasnt worth it, and i started crying, so i feel worse again now as i feel like he obviously thinks im really bothered, which i am, i just dont want him to think that

[radiogaga]

aww honey you done the right thing, do not beat your self up over you crying. just continue as you have been dont answer his calls
he thought youd killed yourself.....he sounds a right horror. arrogant ****.
all i can say is look towards the next day, your day. leave him in the past. radio. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx