yep, sounds like peri to me too. you'll probably find it will all settle down again for a while (maybe even a year) then something else will rear it's head (severe pms, sleep disturbance, heart palpitations, anxiety - the list goes on!!) . if you google up peri menopause you'll find a lot of information about it all, like all 35/36 symptoms of menopause, and join or browse a menopause forum where you'll get a lot of support, advice and information about it all. helps to know that there's lots of others going through the same stuff, and read what they've done about helping themselves deal with it. good luck.