Ethel, I did have a fairly high opinion of your comments and views, but after that remark, something you cannot generalise on, there was a serious dip. Do you genuinely believe that we want to write a note out, on the street, plus do all the paperwork when we get back, rather than actually get rid of the item?
As for ringing the sorting office, that'll do no good - some people have no idea of how much post there is nowadays, and it's impossible to isolate an item unless delivery has been tried.