Sorry if anyones already said this, but my daughter is 4 and although we are atheist (excuse the spelling if it's wrong!), and is going to be in 2 nativity plays next week, with which i have no problem with, being atheist means we dont belive in god, but who are we to say that she shouldn't, i belive she should have the choice in her own religion and as her school & nursery also celebrate diwali (again excuse the spelling!) and talk abotu all religions i think she's being well informed,
Anyway i dont believe nativity plays are particularly about religion anymore, they are to teach children about the history of where christmas comes from, and although im not totally clued up on the nativity story myself i do believe presents are given due to the 3 kings presenting gifts to jesus, so if your atheist and dont agree with nativity isn't giving presents a bit hypocritical, please let me know if im wrong!
Oh and old git my daughters nativity play DVD is being sold at a very reasonable 3 quid! But i do agree with your comment!