Cheating

[georgit79]

Following on from the pot question, I want to see how truthful everyone's going to be...hands up out there anyone who's ever cheated on a partner? I have, twice, but back when I was still in my teens so I use hormones as an excuse!

[Tha-Flash]

I've never cheated. I just tell the person who i'm dating that i'm looking for the right 'soul-mate' so i'm gonna be dating more than just one person at a time. And if she dosn't like that, she can walk right off right now, i've saved her and my own time. Truth is the way to go.

[Rock Mommy]

I cheated on an old boyfriend and learnt a harsh lesson. After I ditched said boyfriend I wanted to date the guy I'd been two-timing my boyfriend with, but he wouldn't entertain the idea, as he already knew I was capable of cheating on him. Hummm, it upset me at the time, but didn't stop me doing it again!  Was a bit naughty in my teens, but have been married and faithful for 10 years now. 

[mully]

 ashamed to say yes i have, on an ex boyfriend while i was at uni -felt so guilty about it that i had to finish with him and yes i was drunk but i know thats not an excuse wouldn't do it to my current partner as i think ive grown up a bit since then and have got too much to loose, but i do have the odd sneaky look at dishy fellas no harm in a bit of window shopping?! 

[Lindy Loo]

Never have and never will....Just my style. Could never cheat on someone I was in a relationship with, though it has been done to me in the past...*?!*fff*!? if you get what I mean!

[Yinzer]

I guess I did, we weren't exclusive and it wouldn't have been a problem if I hadn't done it with his friend. But we were 16 and you know how that is... Now, I don't know about cheating per-se but I sometimes could envision myself falling for another man who is more of a closet romantic (ooh, look at the stars! Ooh, what a sad and beautiful world. Ooh, let's go hiking etc. etc.) like me. It may sound silly but I feel guilty for even possibly being capable of it!

[el duerino]

never. I wouldnt like to be the kind of person that does that. and im not.

[CiderMonkey]

Yes, cheated on both my previous 2 boyfriends.The first - i was away at Uni, but i ended up telling him after i did it. I think i was just looking for a way out because even though nothing was particularly wrong, it just wasn't right. I think inside i did that so he'd have to dump me. Maybe i could have found a better way though! he obviously wasn't too hurt by it as he tried it on with me when i saw him at a gig a few years later! The second - i am glad i did it as it turns out he was a complete w**nker and was cheating on me, stealing from me, hiding final demand bills he said he'd paid and spending all his money on drugs. I'm just sorry I didn't do it more! I obviously wasn't in love with either of them. I can't imagine ever cheating on my partner now. He's everything I want and I think you only cheat when something is missing.

[hulohoop]

never ever have and never ever will, its awful i have never been cheated on so i dont expect it.