Single/Separated for a Reason????

[stevie1time]

Let me start by saying...Hope yow all had a great crimbo and see the new year in with smiles and exceptional aspirations ;) .....Right,not so much a question but a personal view! Honest replies and criticisms appreciated..So!!! Obviously i am single,have been for nearly two years now,it has its ups and it has its downs..(this is awkward to word) right,i know why i am single,i know what caused my relationship with the mother of my kids to fail,i know it was my fault and i know that my actions and attitude(at that particular time) has made me the single/separated person i am today...Now is it wrong that i see this in anyone that i meet or consider maybe dating...I think to myself,why are they single,or why are they divorced,at one point in their lives,as in my own,someone didnt want them or cheated on them or maybe even they cheated,or someone divorced them,basically something was wrong with them or in their lives that has made them single...just like i know why i am?? Now i am not a negative person at all,the opposite in fact,,but what do you think folks?? am i wrong and being selfish or am i just over cautious to my next step?? P.S if this is dont make sense,then one understands XXXX

[Petal~flower]

I know who you are 11111 . you have been reported. looser

[tiggerblue10]

Well I am kind of seeing someone at the moment so you never know. Watch this space........

[Petal~flower]

good luck hun. cant get on beta site to message you. But catch up with you soon ok xxxxx

[Petal~flower]

Sorry Stevie, for hijacking your thread.

And for the idiot that always like to spoil anything. Petal x

[tiggerblue10]

Ok Pet. I'm off to bed now, catch you all soon.

Night xxx

[111116661111]

spetal

dont yie 4get to report my other names


i.am.legend



lmfbo

[Petal~flower]

you are not legend.

You dozy git


night night

[stevie1time]

111111 Your mom is here at my house,i just let my german sheppard bang her huge ass off,she let me film it,told me that like that sort of thing..She also said,she also said she's on her way home soon and for you to tell your dad to pull his dick out your arse and go wake your sister up,cos gang bang incest night tonigh you sad inbred ****....Go buy a life my friend or better still take your own.....

[stevie1time]

I must admit folks,you especially Petal, in a way i have to thank that never go nowhere,never do owt or achieve any goals,aspire to anything of worth in his sad pathetic life 11111......when i started the night i was feeling rather low,a tad deppressed, thinking that my life was a little sad.....But fooooook me 11111 you have cheered me up cos compared to your worthless exsistence.....im a foooooooking Superstar.....goodnight and god bless to you all....

[treekle]

hear bloody hear Stevie1time, let the sad git ave it!

[123everton]

Without reading all 70 answers all I can say is why worry? My ex walked out on me 7 years ago tomorrow, my Grand mother (now deceased) was in hospital with pneumonia, I'd just gotten over the flu (and it was flu!) and was only weeks away from my birthday.
All because her mother did'nt want her daughter with a Gualau.
It was a tough time, but all you can do in any situation is keep going.
Stay true to yourself, do the things you enjoy, be open and engaging with company, force yourself to go out (if need be).
But above all else keep going and you'll end up somewhere.
To fall in love you have to accept (and embrace?) the fact you may end up looking the fool but you have to be open to recieve it.
The only other option is to give up, I kept going and won through, but I'd still sooner be single than with someone I don't love or who does'nt make me happy. I know loads of people who stay together because they're afraid of being single.

[chicklin]

Stevie - you should try not to let your experiences taint any future possible relationships.
Very likely there is something that caused their previous relationship to fail. But to each new relationship we all bring new things. We react to a different person in a different way.
Thats exactly why it can take time to find just the right person for you.
Don't let this negative thinking spoil the next possible relationship from even getting off the ground - that may be THE one!