teen sex

[j.lo]

i am 4teen and my boyfriend wants 2 have sex what do i do?

[Greedyfly]

You say NO!!!  

• 1. because you are under age
• 2. because it is illegal   
• 3. because if you are asking us then you know you are not ready for such a big step and decision.

Your virginity is precious (you can roll your eyes) I am 21 and I have been there - just tell him to wait and although it is always said it is true - if he at all cares about you he won't pressure you or ask you again. He will wait until you are ready.

 

If he does try to push you - the best thing to do is tell someone.  Never give in to pressure.

[GadgetTak]

I agree with Greedyfly for the all the same reasons. There is probably nothing to physically stop you doing it and only you know the real answer. But most people have been there done it and got the tshirt. Its easy for an adult to lecture you and say don't do this and don't do that but have the wisdom because we have learned the hard way. I was determined to lose my virginity before I was 16 and had a race with my bestfriend. Looking back is was totally the wrong thing to do and my first time was horrible. But if an adult had told me not to back then I would have ignored them. IF you do go ahead and do it then please please make sure you use a sensible form of childbirth control AND a condom to protect you from diseases.

[2nosey]

tell his mum! just jokin but definetly say NO. if he's making you do something you don't want to then you need to think to yourself if he's really worth having a relationship with.

 

don't do anything stupid they make it illegal for your benefit.  

[woofgang]

I am an oldie but I agree with the others. When you are ready, you won't need to ask a bunch of strangers for advice.. Also and I'm not saying this to frighten you, there was research out a few years ago that tied early sexual activity to an increased risk of cervical cancer

[georgit79]

You obviously don't. So JUST SAY NO.

[smudge]

Don't do it - for all the reasons Greedyfly & the others have given you.

[pimptress]

listin i can't tell you much because im 14 and i just found out i could be... well you know. Anyway do wut you feel is right if your ready to and you have thought alot about it then do wut your gut feeling tells you.

 

[2nd row]

  keep your legs tightly together !  definately  say " no " !!!   get another boyfriend !!  tell your parents what he wants,,..... but then,  will you listen ? will you heed all the good, sound advice already passed onto you ? ........ this boy will  not, and i repeat ' not '  be around , if you say "yes " !!   fourteen ???   stay in and do your homework !!!!!

[xxlizziexx]

im 14 to, i was going to have sex with someone but then i didnt for a few reasons. when i was thinking i was going to lose my virginety i thought about it alot. i really wanted to have sex with him but a few things i thought about made me think no. one i was to younge but to me that didnt matter then when it does. another was that virginety is a special thing, i mean its going to be in your mind for ever. the first time you lose it. its not jsut anything its sometihng amazing and you cant lose it if your not 100% sure. i had my doubts and thats what put me off and made me say no to it. you really have to totally in love with your boyfriend if you want to lose it.
really think about it really deeply.
if you are really consudering about have sex then why not try other things than sex. like fingering, things like that and if you already have then just keep doing that. your 14 years old you have the rest of your life to have sex, why rush it now?? if your boyfriend is pushing you into it dump him. do you want to be with someone that is trying to push you for sex?? i dont think so. trust your feelings not anyone else's.
hope this helps! xx