LOL calleach! Some relatives of mine made their own wine on their son's first birthday and aged it right up until he got married! I am putting together a little book of the year - our home, our family, important people, news, culture, world events - to give to him when he is old enough to appreciate it. Which may be never but it's a nice idea anyway. More traditionally, our son's 1st birthday will be dec. 2 and the family (extended) is having a nice dinner, and baby gets to toddle around with the other little 'uns and have his first sampling of chocolate cake! I don't know how you feel about showers of presents, but I detest it and am more interested in him getting some quality time with rarely-seen family members. Good luck anyway, and remember to take lots of pictures!