I went for a job yesterday

[lil123]

and it went really well but the trouble is things have got pretty
serious with my boyfriend and we have talked about me moving to be with him later in the year. Now I am at a dilemma as wether to take this job or not as I will have to leave in a few months.
The jobs not that great but it would help me to get back on my feet financial wise.
I am getting really stressed about it as my heart says one thing and my head another as usual. HELP !!!!

[donn1901]

take the job mate! few months may never come you may hit an obsticule that may stop you moving you may split may never happen but you will kick yourself if you don't take the chane you have been offered think carefully

[funnygirl]

Lil, I don't know much about your circumstances, but cannot you do both?? or does your boyfriend live in another part of the country??

[rayѕparx1]

Hi lil, hope you are well, will message you later, I think you should take the job, this will help you rebuild your self esteem and confidence,as well as the money side, you will meet new people and you might even enjoy it, the relationship is quite new, let it flow along nice and easy for a while, don't go too deeply into it just yet, give it time all will pan out for the best in the end and whats to be, will be, if it works with the boyfriend great you can then pack the job in if you want to, the main thing in life is to be happy, good luck and take care, Ray xx

[lil123]

Yes he lives in another town so I would have to move house again. This job is ten a penny if you know what I mean so if it doesn't work out with him I can easy get another. I was going to go to college and uni anyway if a job I wanted didn't turn up and I can do that where ever I live x

[lil123]

Morning Ray !!! xx

[lil123]

gravitate he is not like that at all and said me it is purely my choice what I decide 2do. I have waited all my life to meet someone like him after the evil ex husband I had. It is myself who causes me the most stress as I have spent the past 18mths building my life back up. x

[funnygirl]

Ray is right.

Take the job for a few months as it will help you financially and give you self esteem.

Maybe you can transfer, but this little work experience will help you get another job.

[jack daniels]

Take the job hun, it might be a while before you need to relocate & in the meantime you've had the chance to 'get back out there' building up everything you need to!

good luck

[bensmum]

Take the job - not only will the financial independence be good but it will also give you some personal independence. You don't say how long you have known this man but if the relationship is going to last it will do so even if you take this job. You say that jobs like this are easy to come by but you might find that things are different a few months down the line. In any case - if you don't take it what will you be doing in the meantime?

[Postdog]

take the job.

[lil123]

Thank you all for your wise advise xx